Let Them Go

March 8, 2011

I’ve been somewhat absent lately as I’ve been thinking a lot about BlondeGirl.

There are people who can walk away from you. When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don’t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, loving you.

I mean hang up the phone, don’t write that e-mail, unfriend them on facebook.

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.Β People leave you because they are not attached to you. And if they are not attached to you, you can’t make them stay.

In my story with BlondeGirl, the end was really pretty. In addition to being a pretty story, it’s also a painful one to be in, and I hate (hated?) every moment of it. If she doesn’t care. Why should I?

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6 Responses to “Let Them Go”

  1. Word! Totally hear you on that.

  2. Mi Mi said

    Because sometimes you care, even if thwy don’t… That’s how it works.

  3. J said

    Now would be a good time for you to reread this advice you gave yourself πŸ™‚

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