How to Attract or Repel a Leo Lesbian

January 16, 2012

Today, let’s talk about Lesbian Leos.

How to Keep or Repel a Leo Girlfriend.

The Leo lesbian was made to be the center of attention. She’s confident, passionate, and sexual. No one gives a better gift than a Leo. No one throws a better party. She needs a stage to shine and an audience to perform. And you will be that audience.

Jill Bennett with the perfect Leo smirk

To seduce a Leo lesbian, you must be a star. A Leo doesn’t deal with losers. And you better not be a geek or a nerd! However, every once in a while, a Leo might take on a pet project. For example, if she believes you are a misunderstood genius or a damsel in distress. A Leo excels at rescuing and fixing.

Be witty, smart, and a little pretentious; tell her you don’t care about worldly goods; and yet give her the impression that she is part of an extremely select group. In sex, turn up the volume and let her know how you really feel! But, it’s vital that you behave as though you could care less about having a relationship. You can never pressure a Leo lesbian into getting serious if she does not want to.

Leo is the one sign of the Zodiac that doesn’t tolerate dishonesty. As long as you really believe in everything mentioned above (or just lie really well), you will be happy together. But, if you she finds out you’ve been concealing something or outright making shit up, you will convert into her ex overnight.

Exes don’t really matter to a Leo. Yes, she is aware that they exist, but unlike Cancer, she harbors no emotional attachment to them.

If you are fed up with a Leo and decide to break up with her, it’s not as easy as you may think. It’s pretty hard for any Leo to believe that she is no longer the center of your universe. However, if you manage to embarrass her in front of her friends by acting indifferent or cheap, that will be the end of your relationship. Here are the stages that she will go through before leaving her partner:

Stage one. The Leo lesbian doesn’t notice that anything is wrong. She is perfect. Her partner is perfect. Those weird things people keep pointing out? Accidents. Coincidences.

Stage two. Those accidents start to not really seem like accidents anymore. Those coincidences, not so much coincidences. Leo’s smart. She will put two and two together. But Leo couldn’t have picked a bad partner. So, there’s something wrong with her girlfriend, and if anyone can fix it, it’s Leo.

Stage three. Leo lesbian tries to pay more attention to her partner. But for some reason her partner doesn’t seem to appreciate the royal gesture. Weird. In addition, the partner still keeps having “accidents”.

Stage four. The Leo lesbian realizes that she can no longer live with the accidents. There are others, more worthy of Leo’s attention. The Leo is looking for a new queen.

Will want as her queen: Libra and Aries.

Will not accept as her servant: Pisces and Cancer.


43 Responses to “How to Attract or Repel a Leo Lesbian”

  1. Nic said

    So the honorary lesbian wants a libra as her Queen? Lucky me.. yay

  2. Anonymous said

    Lol I’m a Leo and this is pretty much spot on… I can see why Aries could be a good match but it’s possible I’ve been over looking Libras. I’ll have to wait until that post comes around to find out what the deal is ๐Ÿ™‚

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  6. mary said

    I am a lesbian Leo and i am especially attracted to the Cardinal signs.

    Cancer’s are my favourite. They are feminine, honest, sweet and caring. I like to have deep conversations with them, and calm moments at their home!
    Capricorns are a bit aggresive, but i like them because they are protective and stable. Oh, and they are great cooks for some reason.
    Aries are superhot..what can i say? Good looks, sexiness, openess and very passionate people. You don’t want to get out of the bed with them, yeah.
    Libras are nice, but they are not as easy as they seem. They want to do their thing and are very demanding. They are not the perfect match for a Leo, but rather good for a breef affair.

    I can’t wait for the next posts..

  7. Anonymous said

    I read this and was shocked at how spot on it was!! I’m a Leo and I must say, this is just amazing! Oh and just a little pointer for other leos out there, Gemini can be pretty tough to be in a meaningful relationship with, but its a fun challenge ๐Ÿ˜‰

  8. Nix said

    Okay, must say that I am naturally drawn to both Aries (of course) and Cancer women. I do love the cancer women. They can be a lot of fun, but a little clingy at times. So, that’s usually right about when I’m ready to head in the other direction. Just not ready for being captured at this time.

    LEO LESBIAN here….free, single and ready to mingle! ๐Ÿ˜‰

    • Leo and Aries are a pretty great match! Both have lots of energy and optimism. Cancer and Leo – not so much. Some attraction, yes, but the Cancer might bring Leo down to earth a little too much for Leo’s likes.

  9. X said

    Oh i am a leo and i disagree on some points. We DO like the ”losers”, they bring out our Pygmalion side. Especially if they are Cancers or maybe Capricorns. Secondly, we do care about serious, deep relationships, we just like to test our partner to see if they deserve (=respect) us.

    From my experience, so far, (i’m 25) the perfect matches are Gemini, Capricorns and Cancers. Maybe Gemini mostly. I would settle down with a Gemini girl anytime. Aries and Libras? Not really.

    (Sorry for my bad english, i ‘m greek).

  10. Asia said

    I’m a taurus and have been with my leo for two years, we do fight… but neither of us can let go it seems. she, more so than i, she melts in my hands but she likes to play it cool. shes really rude and overbearing sometimes, while im really laid back and whatever about life and “overly nice” to strangers. she argues to get my attention, which only repels me. not sure how to get that through her head, we are both so stubborn. i dont want to fight and turn cold toward her, but it seems to happen more often than i’d like. shes my sweetheart! irresistable as well, i cant keep away from her even when its good for me

  11. Sincere said

    I am a cancer and I have just met a leo and she has captured my attention….any advice on how to go with this

    • Nadia said

      Start talking to her, get to know each other! I’m a Leo & of all the women, I fell hard for a Cancer. She knew how to draw me out with her nurturing, attentive gentleness & love. Many before her have tried to pin me down, all failed until her. I literally let her “pin” me, which is rare for us, passionate types, but hot damn, only for this Cancer woman! As Leos, we do go a lot slower than you Cancers, but that’s only cuz we want to be sure. You Cancers are absolutely sexy, the archetype of femininity which drive us Leos wild with passion. Let your Leo know how you feel. Be your nurturing, intuitive, gentle and even shy self. And always always be honest, no matter what. If the two of you have intense attraction, and she spends time with you, keeps in constant contact with you, lavishes you with gifts (great & small)–then you’ll know she’s crazy about you. Most importantly, trust & believe in yourself, cuz she does (insecurity in Cancer has played havoc btwn us). This Cancer has my utmost loyalty & love. Which, I think, other Leos may or may not agree – is a hard & rare thing to come by.

  12. Lana said

    Is very good but actually I break up with scorpio ,libra,leo and can’t stand Aries, however now I am happy with my CANCER oh the irony hahah but the description is spot on!

  13. Anonymous said

    since 2004 with her so, I think the deal is sealed

  14. Anonymous said

    Hello and G’afternoon or whatever time you all are at lol I’m a Scorpio who believes I’m in a Leo curse. Because apparently I adore them.

    In high school I noticed this very beautiful year older than me, sexy Leo and instantly had a crush on her but never really talked to her but even as years passed and i dated and broke up with other women I never forgot that Leo woman. until a hangout of mutual friends did i see her after 3yrs and boom my blood rushed, and this heat came over me..finally kinda talked to her and damn i love love her voice it was such a turn on. Well months passed and through a good mutual friend he hooked me up with her and we were friends for a month and then became gfs. I never felt happier in my life, i saw her perfect, sexy, cute, adorable, silly, intelligent, her body, her skin, her scent, her smooth soft hands….I loved her to death…but..unfortunately after 4yrs she broke my heart and forever scarred me…still kinda hurt but not so bad as before.

    Time passed and i met this other leo lesbian and we clicked instantly and hooked up…with her i opened up more than anyone but we only lasted a year and a few months….she was 4yrs younger than me and sometimes i think thats one of the main things why she broke up with me…she still needed to mature, despite that leos are naturally mature intelligent wise but not really emotionally…but yeah she still had to grow up…but despite me staying off leo women…i’m still very very attracted to them…so yeah..maybe i havent found the right one yet..idk…but just wanted to share my experience with leo women…and how much i actually adore them but all of them leave me scarred and broken. Lol

  15. Rinny said

    I didn’t see anything about Pisces I guess they are not a great match…I was with one for 12 years…she just broke up with me 2 months ago for a 22 year old and broke my heart.

  16. Knichols said

    When you wrote “But, if you she finds out youโ€™ve been concealing something or outright making shit up, you will convert into her ex overnight.” I was impressed. Please let me explain why. โ™Œ๏ธ

    Bottom line, we want you to be happy and let you go if we find we cannot offer it to you. ๐Ÿšผ๐ŸšบNever look back because deep inside, we think it is best for you, you suffering us.๐ŸŽปWe recognize our weakness. Wait! What? Cliche? Read on for more drama.

    As leos, ๐Ÿ”ฑwe cannot help needing your admiration as we admire you so, โค๏ธand want to be your heroes/queens princesses.๐Ÿ—ฝ๐Ÿฐ BORN inner confidence allows us to see your magnificence even if you cannot value yourself. This is part of the psych condition whereby one can have true compassion for others if they can show themselves the same. We know this comes off terribly as complete conceit,utter vanity but we are so desperate ๐ŸŽปto be this hero, pride and bravado are our default. You’re amazing! It’s easy to catch us staring. We know our sexual desires can be a burden. This neediness is our weakness and we hate ourselves for it. So every time you suppose we admire ourselves in the mirror, rest assured confidence does not erase our shame.

  17. I was with a Leo for 2 years, she came on very strong and aggressive and ended up falling in love with her…Us Tauruses are very laid back and very caring, but sometimes that can be mistaken for a pushover..she ended up being very manipulative, overbearing, rude, and had to many double-standard ways, that I could no longer deal with..moral of story..Taurus and leos aren’t a good match lol

  18. Mercedes said

    Am I the only Leo here who cannot stand Cancers? Maybe it’s my moon in Aquarius/Venus in Gemini (I’m not a typically emotional fire sign), but the dynamic is always dramatic, volatile, tumultuous, and exhausting (Capricorns can be equally moody, unstable, and Debbie Downers). I’ll have to disagree with Pisces not wanting to be a servant; sacrifice and compromise is all they know (I’m currently seeing a Pisces, and it works because she has the emotional intelligence of a Cancer, but gives me lots of space to breathe and be myself, like a Sagittarius would). An Aries works short term in my experience; Leos like to be the center of attention and Aries are the big babies of the zodiac (very demanding, kind of a turn off). As for Libra, I find their indecisiveness and vapidity to be more trouble than it’s worth. This is all to say that moon/sun compatibility and venus/mars compatibility are more accurate measures.

  19. CJ said

    Well I sure hope you all know what you’re talking about here… I just sent direct admiration to the Leo woman I’m smitten for. I usual try to show with actions and not tell when it comes to feelings. What I don’t understand is: she gives me her time, she’s open, intimate (cuddly), but hasn’t been sexual in two weeks. I’m so attracted to her I’m not interested in other women. Do Leo women like to be outright seduced? I’m a Gemini, and we do this well. But I haven’t with her, not yet. I thought Leo women like to take charge sexually. So I’ve held back: I’ve just been real, really sexy, and giving. She says she’s always the lead in relationships. Which works well for me. But if I turn up the heat will I step on her toes? Or should I just wait? She says its work related, but I’m not sure it is. Sleeping next to her and not having sex is agony.

  20. Aria said

    I’m a lesbian Leo, feminine but sexually versatile.

    I seem to be the dominant one with Libras, Aries, Geminis, Virgos, Capricorns, Sagittarius, Pisces. I like to act gentlemanly towards them. Give them flowers, gifts, praise their beauty, be overprotective, jealous, make choices and give orders (in bed too!)

    Strangely though, I’m often attracted to older women (mostly Cancerian and Taurus, some Scorpios also) who make me feel extremely sensitive in their presence. I feel like a baby that needs their protection and nurturing. It’s very awkward. Perhaps it is my Taurus moon, but still. I behave very childish, like an orphan girl.

    Anyways the love of my life was a Virgo. She was so precious to me. She was full of insecurities even though she was perfect at everything. I adore Virgo women. So classy, nervous and shy, sexually passive (ahhh). Sadly, she was homophobic and wouldn’t come out of the closet, to her conservative family, for me. I wish to create my own family someday and be out and proud about it. She was too ashamed about her homosexuality.

    My worst experience was with an Aquarius. I like passionate people and …she wouldn’t sacrifice her life for me! Ha, ha. She was too independent for me. She threw water on my flame. Never again Aquariuses for me.

    So, I am single right now and hope some nice Libra comes my way.

  21. Ann said

    Please please please i am a Leo woman, in love with a Taurus woman of same age, 30. I am so nervous when i see her, that i can’t talk to her. I stay in front of her, mesmerized. She is so damn beautiful. She has noticed how shy i am, and asked me first to go out with her. I have declined 3 times, because i feel insecure. She has money, i have not. She is a strong character, i am fragile. She is so feminine and hot, my appearance is soft butch. Please tell me your experiences with Leo-Taurus match! I ve never felt so attracted to anybody.

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